Depending on the country, region, or state where you live, how your
miscarriage will be handled depends on local laws.
Your ability to receive your baby's remains also depends on these same laws.
Before reading this, make sure you are truly
interested. This information is about abortion law. It is not the intent of this
site to say whether abortion is right or wrong, but only the let you know how
these laws affect you when you lose a much wanted, much loved baby.
In places where abortion is legal, a baby cannot be considered a
"person" until the age of viability, which is usually between 20 and
24 weeks of pregnancy. Before that point, a D&C or D&E may be legal
whether the baby is alive or not. After that point, depending on the way the
laws are written, no surgical removal of the baby that could kill it (even if it
is already dead) can take place. Because of these laws, you cannot have the
remains of your baby from a D&C or D&E procedure, since it is only
"medical waste" and not a human being. This is absolutely harsh and
terrible, but it is how the laws are done, partly due to the abortion issue, and
partly to protect these fetuses from being used in scientific ways without
Also because of these laws, you have no choice but to deliver your baby
through labor once the age of viability has passed. Some doctors will use
discretion to allow you a D&E if the baby's growth size is significantly
smaller than the age of pregnancy. This can put you below the viability window
and avoid labor and delivery if you do not want it. Regardless of your
pregnancy's length, if you have a natural miscarriage at home or a labor and
delivery birth at the hospital, you will get your baby's remains. Seeing and
holding your baby is an important factor in your decision, if you have a choice.
Some doctors have strong preferences regardless of what the law allows, and
put you in the hospital for an induction even if your baby is below viability
age. Regular ob/gyns are often not trained for surgical removal of babies larger
than 15 weeks, and will induce rather than refer you to a doctor who can do it.
This is often again, due to abortion law, because doctors who can perform a
D&E on a large baby sometimes also perform late-term abortions. It can be
very difficult to go to one of these doctors and sit in a room with people who
are choosing to abort their babies. I have been there, and it was impossibly
When these laws are written, they do not consider the rights and feelings of
women who are suffering a loss.