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Causes of Miscarriage
Most early miscarriages (as many as 60% of first trimester
ones) will remain unexplained. It is usually assumed these
losses are genetic, where the chromosomes simply did not
replicate correctly. Many people will assume that something that
happened recently, such as an illness, fall, or exposure to
something will have caused the miscarriage. This is rarely true,
since by the time a miscarriage is diagnosed or begins, the baby
has been lost for quite some time. Hopefully this section will
help you understand the causes; you should also read the section
on myths.
There are several categories of
miscarriage causes:
There are a number of things that are not on the list above,
even if you heard they cause miscarriage, because they are not
documented causes of a loss. Here are two links to follow for
those:
When we talk about a hormone problem, you
have likely miscarried in less than 10 weeks. After that, the placenta has
taken over hormone production and any normal deficiency you have is not a
factor. Low progesterone, the most common problem,
is not as easy to treat as you might hope. Progesterone suppositories, while
frequently prescribed, are not proven to be helpful and often actually cause
a nonviable pregnancy to last longer than it should.
The only situation
where progesterone is a sure solution is with a luteal phase defect, where
the corpus luteum, which is formed along with egg at ovulation, does not produce the
hormones needed to sustain a pregnancy. For most women, however, this is
usually not an every-month problem. Usually the situation rights itself with the next egg and the next corpus
luteum. This problem, if it is a permanent one, can be diagnosed
through two separate endometrial
biopsies. Progesterone must be started 48 hours after
ovulation to work. By the time you have missed a period, it is
too late to save a pregnancy with a luteal phase defect.5
Low progesterone, however, is usually a symptom
of an nonviable pregnancy, and not the cause. Doctors
often prescribe progesterone suppositories out of patient
pressure when the hormone levels are low, but their use is
controversial and usually completely ineffective. A common
treatment for a suspected progesterone problem is Clomid, a pill
taken for five days early in your cycle to rev up your hormone
production. Not everyone is a candidate for Clomid, and 25% of
women will have decreased cervical mucus, which can actually
make you less fertile. See the Sperm
Meets Egg Plan for more information.
Other hormone problems may be created when you have an untreated
thyroid disorder. Your thyroid function can easily be tested, and this problem
is very treatable.
There are many factors that come in to play
when the egg and sperm unite and form that first cell. Even if both the egg
and sperm come with perfect chromosomes, the first few cell divisions can
see an abnormality crop up that would certainly be devastating. Chromosome
defects that cause a newly fertilized egg to die can account for as much as
60 percent of early miscarriages.
You can usually find out if you
had a baby with a chromosome problem through testing tissue from the
miscarriage. This must be done RIGHT AWAY when the tissue comes out or the
cells cannot grow and the test won't work. If this is your first
miscarriage, however, do not go to great lengths to save tissue.
Very few doctors will test it, and a chromosomal cause for the
miscarriage will be assumed without testing.
Even when you have a D&C and
the doctor sends the tissue immediately, the test still might not work. (Mine
didn't.) But if you do find your baby had a chromosome defect, find a small
measure of comfort in knowing that although you lost this one precious baby,
the chances of it happening again are extremely small. Another threshold
will be crossed, however, at age 35. At that point, your eggs will begin to
age, and your odds of a chromosomal miscarriage will begin increasing dramatically.
After the 2nd trimester begins, the number of
miscarriages caused by genetic factors drops to less than 10 percent.3
If you have had
several miscarriages in a row, then your odds of this being
your problem are quite low, about 7%.42
Some women have a uterus that does not have
the usual shape. Others have a cervix that may be weakened by a number of
causes, including multiple D&C procedures or their mother taking DES
when she was pregnant (although note that DES was discontinued in 1971 and
most DES daughters are leaving their childbirth years behind.) Both of these problems can cause
early labor,
usually during a critical period from 12-24 weeks. This cause is responsible
for 12 percent of miscarriages during this time period. As the baby grows, especially during the very rapid growth spurt during this
time frame, the irregularly shaped uterus may not be able to expand or the
weak cervix may start to open up and let the baby out. There are treatments
for both of these that are quite effective—corrective surgery on the
uterus and a cervical stitch that holds the cervix closed. This problem WILL
REOCCUR if not treated.
A uterine abnormality often causes a
miscarriage due to early labor, but it can also cause fetal demise, which is
what happened to our Casey. Sixteen weeks into my pregnancy with Emily, we
had an abnormal AFP screening. Since we were near the point of the pregnancy
when Casey died, naturally we were frantic. We saw a perinatologist, who
discovered I had a septate uterus. When I was a fetus, the two sections of
tissue that normally fuse together to form the uterus only fused on the
bottom. Therefore, there is a huge wall going down the middle of my uterus.
When Casey implanted, he chose the middle wall. This section, however, has
little blood flow. As Casey grew and required more and more blood and
nutrition, this area could not support him. Although Emily chose
a better implantation spot, this problem caused her to be breech and
required a c-section. While I did have the surgery to correct this problem,
my next pregnancy still had complications, and I was not
allowed a vaginal delivery.
Be aware that there are varying levels of
septums. Some are paper-thin and simply move out of the way for the baby,
causing no problems. Others, like mine, increase your chance of miscarriage
significantly. Only a high-level sonogram or an HSG dye test can uncover this problem.
While many experienced and well respected reproductive
endocrinologists specialize in this field now, many
"regular" ob/gyn doctors are quite resistant to the
idea of this type of miscarriage cause and its treatment.
Specialists in immune disorders claim up to an 80% success
rate with women who have had three or more miscarriages, but
there is still much skepticism even among infertility and
reproductive specialists.
Antiphospholipid antibodies can cause blood clots in
the placenta that block or slow down the baby's blood supply, causing growth to slow or
the baby to die altogether. Your blood can be tested for these
antibodies. These tests are called anticardiolipins or
the associated lupus anticoagulant. These are
inexpensive tests, and sometimes you can get them after only
one miscarriage. If antibody levels are thought to be high
enough to affect the pregnancy, treatment involves baby aspirin and
sometimes a blood thinner called Heparin. In rare cases, the
woman is actually found to have Lupus, which may be mild
enough not to affect her, but needs management anyway to
protect her pregnancies (see antinuclear antibodies). While a miscarriage
due to this problem can happen at any time, often the baby
will grow past the first trimester. 10 to 15% of recurring
miscarriages are caused by these antibodies.6
Antinuclear antibodies are caused by an auto-immune
problem, in Lupus or a Lupus-like syndrome, where the body attacks
itself. The treatment for this problem is Prednisone, a
corticosteroid, which calms down the inflammatory process of
auto-immune disease. Prednisone, however, is really a horrible
drug and will cause all sorts of terrible side effects,
including swelling, bruise marks on the face, and discomfort.
You do not ask for this drug without really needing it.6
Fetal-Blocking
Antibodies work to protect the baby from the mother's
immune system, which will recognize the father's genetic
material as foreign to her body and attack it. When the sperm
penetrate the egg, it provides foreign material, but it also
contains histocompatibility locus antigens (HLA). The sperm's
HLA will "talk" to the mother's HLA, which would
normally attack the baby, and stimulate the mother's body to
protect the baby. In some cases, however, the father's genetic
material is too similar to the mother's. In that case, the
mother's response is weak and insufficient to prevent her
white blood cells from attacking the new cells. Standard
testing for this is not yet available, and you would have be
accepted into one of the few elite clinics working in this
field. If your tests show you and your partner's DNA to be too
similar, you can receive injections of your partner's white
blood cells, in hopes of getting enough of his HLA in your
system to stimulate a stronger protective response. This is an
expensive and controversial tactic, but allegedly (a word I
use since there isn't solid 3rd party data to support it)
succeeds 80% of the time.7, 42 This type of problem usually causes an
early miscarriage, well before 12 weeks, and is often suspected
when several miscarriages have occurred at the exact same time
in the pregnancy
The average OB/Gyn may not be up to date on these immune issues. Read up on it yourself and
find a specialist who can determine if this is a problem that might be
affecting your babies. You are not usually a candidate for the more involved
testing, which is expensive and not typically covered by
insurance, until you have at least three losses.
Many miscarriages begin with cramping and
labor-like symptoms, but true PROM and Early Labor are usually associated
with babies that are in the second or third trimester. Early labor can often
be treated with drugs that relax the uterus and women are placed on bed rest
either at home or in the hospital.
Sometimes, however, the baby comes anyway.
This is one of the most traumatic of losses, technically a stillbirth and
not a miscarriage after 20 weeks, because you will hold and see your baby
and beg him or her to breathe. For some women, the baby will even be born
alive, but only live for a few minutes, hours or days. There really is
nothing harder in life than this.
PROM is defined as your water breaking prior
to 37 weeks, the age that is considered full term. Most women who have
leaking or gushing amniotic fluid will be placed on antibiotics and placed
in the hospital because the risk of infection is very high. Once an
infection comes, the baby will almost always have to be delivered.
Babies must weigh 500 grams, or about a
pound, to survive. Because I was at high risk for PROM and early labor, I
kept this day on my calendar and waited with fear for it to pass. For women
expecting a normal pregnancy, suddenly having your water break is very
frightening. Your are stuck in the hospital, having to rely on what people
tell you, and unable to get information on your own. It is scary.
PROM is thought largely to be caused by
infections or inflammation of the uterus or fetal membranes. How these
infections come or why they cause the membrane rupture is not completely
understood. Pelvic exams and yeast infections are NOT considered to increase
your risk for PROM. I do know, however, just in reality through talking with
women, including a close friend of mine, that PROM tends to recur. Knowing
you are at risk and taking all the appropriate precautions is essential to
keeping your baby in the uterus as long as possible.
Fortunately, even though PROM cannot always
be treated or prevented, most babies are able to make it far enough to
survive and lead normal lives. If you have experienced unexplained PROM, I
highly recommend finding a doctor with experience with this sort of
pregnancy.
Many infections can cause
miscarriage, but they are the big ones like syphilis, mycoplasma,
toxoplasmosis, and malaria. An upper respiratory infection is NOT going to
cause a miscarriage, even though it may worry you to death. Viruses are the
same. Normal illnesses like the common cold will not cause a problem, but
AIDS and German Measles can. Infections that directly affect the uterus are
bigger risk. This does NOT include yeast infections, which are extremely
common in pregnancy. See the section on Premature Rupture of Membranes for
more information on these infections.
There are a few common illnesses that can cause a
miscarriage or fetal malformation if you get them for the
FIRST TIME during pregnancy, including Chicken Pox and Fifth
Disease. The vast majority of women already have immunity to
these diseases, however, and should not be concerned about
exposure to them during pregnancy. If you think you may not
have immunity, ask your doctor to run an antibody titer to see
if you have a live antibody, or only an old antibody to the
disease in your blood. Only the live antibody without the old
antibody present is a danger.
An infection that causes a fever of over 101 degrees
Fahrenheit should be treated immediately, however. There is a
small risk that prolonged fever can affect your baby. Take
Tylenol to keep your fever down and stay in touch with your
doctor.
Age
is only a factor in miscarriage when you consider what aging can do to your
body. The first and most common is with chromosomes. It is not YOU who have
a problem, it is likely your egg or sperm, which have also aged. Age can,
however, bring other problems such as poor health, disease, or hormonal
imbalance that can make a pregnancy harder to sustain. You don't start
seeing these problems in great numbers, however, until after 40.
Health problems
in the mother can create problems with the pregnancy. Diabetes, heart
problems, and thyroid disorders are just a few that may complicate the
pregnancy. Having these does NOT mean you will certainly have a miscarriage.
You will simply have to be more careful and make sure your treatments are
adapted if needed during pregnancy.
Accidents
typically do not cause a miscarriage. The baby is well protected in its
amniotic sac, surrounded by fluid, and even a hard blow to the abdomen will
likely only rock it. Most women who have a car accident, even with a certain
amount of trauma, have their babies just fine.
The hardest thing to accept is no reason at
all. You live in fear, wondering if the same terrible cause of your first
baby's death will cause another one to die. You scarcely dare to try again.
I have been in this situation and I tossed my doctor's statistics aside. I
had already been on the wrong side of the statistics; I didn't care for
anymore. But I do know this. One miscarriage hardly raises your chances to
miscarry again at all. You are simply back at square one. Try to put the
risk as far back in your mind as possible and enjoy another pregnancy. But I
understand if you can't.
Sometimes a pregnancy ends unhappily, but it is
not technically a miscarriage. This section will touch on these types of
situations.
Blighted Ovum is a
condition (with a terrible, unfortunate name) where the gestational sac grows,
the woman gets all the pregnancy symptoms, but the baby itself never develops.
The sac will continue to grow and grow, and most women do not know there is no
baby until an ultrasound is done. The bleeding, if that happens before the
blighted ovum is found via ultrasound, is slow and brown. Your pregnancy
symptoms will seem to go away. A blighted ovum is believed to be caused by an
egg or sperm with poor genetic material. When the egg is fertilized, instead of
creating both a sac and a baby, the part that should be a baby never grows. A
D&C is almost always needed to empty the uterus, because the body is very
slow to realize there is no baby. Some women do experience more than one
blighted ovum, but most women go on to later have a baby.
An Ectopic Pregnancy
is a normal fertilized egg that gets stuck in the fallopian tube (although
occasionally it will fall into the abdominal cavity) and implants there. This
type of pregnancy cannot survive and puts the mother at great risk for severe hemorrhaging
and possibly even death as the baby grows and eventually bursts the tube. When
the ectopic is discovered based on pain and symptoms rather than an early
ultrasound, the mother will immediately have surgery to remove
the baby. Things will happen very fast, and most likely if this has happened to
you, you are reading this after it is all over. If you are afraid you have an
ectopic, the symptoms that you really want to watch for are: sharp, intense pain
in your abdomen or possibly in your shoulder; a pregnancy test that is positive,
then turns negative a few days later; and spotty red bleeding that continues day
after day. Ectopics that are caught early can be treated
with a cancer drug called Methotrexate, which will end the
pregnancy safely and without surgery.
Ectopics are usually caused by scar tissue in the fallopian tubes that could
have been caused by: previous surgery in the pelvic region, uterus, or tubes; a
pelvic infection such as chlamydia or pelvic inflammatory disease; or endometriosis
that blocks the entrance to the tubes. If you have had one ectopic, your risk
increases for another one. See additional information on treatment.
A Molar Pregnancy
is a very rare type of pregnancy where an abnormal mass forms inside the uterus
after the egg is fertilized. The baby usually does not form, but the uterus is
filled with big bubble clusters. A molar pregnancy is caused when a sperm
fertilizes an empty egg (called a complete molar pregnancy)
and no baby grows, or when two sperm fertilize an egg and both
the baby grows a little as well as an abnormal placenta
(called a partial molar.) Even if a baby does grow, it cannot
survive. The longest documented molar pregnancy I have seen
was a 24-week stillbirth, and most molar pregnancies will be
diagnosed and a D&C performed before the end of the first
trimester. If a molar pregnancy has been
diagnosed, your medical condition will be carefully monitored. In about 15% of
molar pregnancies (usually complete molars and not partial),
the moles spread to other parts of the body like cancer. A
mild form of chemotherapy will have to be used (with
methotrexate),
but rest assured that the cure rate for this type of disease is very high. The
signs of a molar pregnancy include: bleeding in the 12th week of
pregnancy, a uterus that is larger than normal, and hCG levels that are too
high. The molar pregnancy is
removed by a dilating the cervix and gently suctioning out the clusters. Women
who have had a molar pregnancy are usually advised not to get pregnant again for
at least a year to ensure the cancerous form is not present. It is absolutely
essential to follow doctors orders on when to try again with a
molar pregnancy diagnosis. Do not cheat, and have regular
follow ups even after your hCG is zero, to make sure it does
not rise again.8,9
A stillbirth is
technically any pregnancy that ends after the 20th week and the baby does not
survive. Some babies die in utero and are discovered when the heartbeat is not
found. The most common causes of this are: uterine
abnormalities, a knot or other umbilical cord accident, infections of the
lining of the gestational sac or cord, and placental abruptions that cause the
placenta to pull away from the uterine wall. These babies are usually born
through the induction of labor, although some babies are small enough to be
taken by D&C or D&E procedures.
Other babies are lost through early labor. The
causes of early labor are Premature Rupture of Membranes,
uterine abnormalities that make the uterus too small to
hold the baby, and an incompetent cervix, which opens up
and lets the baby out. Sometimes a stillbirth occurs during the birth, by an
umbilical cord that gets pinched between the baby's head and the cervix, or the
cord wraps around the baby's neck. Repeat stillbirths are extremely rare and are
almost all related to uterine or cervix problems, which can be fixed or treated
once found.